For First-Time Parents of Toddlers!

Parenting Expert Reveals The Unexpected Method Turning Tantrums into Cooperation

Help Your Child THRIVE With Structure, Unlock Their Natural Cooperation, Stop Tantrums Before They Start, Build Self-Regulation Skills, And Minimize Power Struggles

What Is First-Time Discipline

First-Time Discipline isn't about controlling your toddler, ignoring their feelings all-together, or punishing them for developmentally normal behavior.

Instead, it's about understanding and helping them thrive with clear, consistent boundaries.

The Dark Side of Traditional Discipline Methods

When well-meaning advice from friends and family doesn't seem to work for your toddler, harsh discipline often becomes the default fallback.

This can seem like a quick and easy solution that doesn't require much additional work from new parents.

But as with any other quick solution, this one comes at a cost as well.

The side effects of harsh discipline methods are well-known and researched. Here are just some of the short and long-term side-effects of traditional discipline: damaged trust, increased aggression, developmental delays, anxiety, more frequent and intense tantrums, damaged parent-child bond, hidden resentment, low self-esteem, and learned helplessness.

But perhaps the biggest side-effect is that traditional discipline doesn't teach lasting skills.

If a toddler behaves only because they fear punishment, they aren't building internal regulation.

This means your child will struggle to follow directions when you're not watching...

Their behavior will become more defiant as they test boundaries to see where they stand...

They'll develop poor emotional coping strategies that will affect their relationships...

This means that many of the challenges you experience with raising toddlers will unfortunately not go away with traditional discipline – they'll just go underground.

Help Your Child Develop Natural Cooperation With First-Time Discipline

I'm Matthew Alexander Hayes, a child development specialist and father of two with over 12 years of hands-on parenting experience.

I've been working with my children since they were born and many first-time parents and I know exactly how to turn the steepest learning curve of your life into your greatest advantage.

After researching what makes new parents succeed where experienced parents often fail, I spent years of research and hundreds of hours of trial and error, to develop strategies that work specifically for first-time parents and their toddlers.

Those same parenting strategies, which you can find in the First-Time Discipline E-Book, are now helping thousands of new parents raise remarkably well-behaved toddlers all around the world.

First-Time Discipline: The Unexpected Method

  • 100 Tailor-Made First-Time Parent Strategies will help your toddler THRIVE with consistent boundaries

  • Toddler Transition Strategies which will turn chaotic moments into smooth, predictable routines

  • Independent Play System to get your child engaged without constant entertainment

  • Emotional Regulation Frameworks to reduce tantrums and meltdowns

  • Positive Discipline Strategies to set healthy boundaries without constant battles

  • Templates, Checklists & Printables for quick & easy implementation for busy new parents

  • Customized approach for children ages 1 to 4

  • 30-day no-questions-asked money back guarantee -- read the whole e-book 100% risk-free

  • Lifetime access to all the materials -- download them, print them, and go through them at your own pace

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But don't take my word for it. Listen to these parents:

"As a first-time mom, I was completely lost about what 'normal' toddler development actually looks like. First-Time Discipline opened my eyes to my daughter's world in ways I never expected. Now I understand her limitations, her experiences, and why she behaves the way she does. It's like someone turned on the lights in a dark room—suddenly everything makes sense! This guide has transformed our relationship and given me the confidence I was desperately seeking. Thank you for this gift of understanding!"

"Straight to the point and NO fluff—exactly what this busy dad needed! I was skeptical about parenting books (who has time to read 300 pages of theory?), but First-Time Discipline delivers practical solutions you can implement TODAY. The templates and exercises are genius. My son's behavior improved within the first week of trying these strategies. My wife thinks I'm some kind of toddler whisperer now. Best $ I've ever spent, hands down!"

"Engineer dad here—I approached my toddler's defiance like a problem to solve, but nothing in my technical background prepared me for these tantrums! First-Time Discipline taught me to identify behavioral patterns and—most importantly—how MY energy affects my child. Now I approach parenting with more calm and awareness. The structured approach in this guide speaks to my analytical mind while addressing the emotional aspects of parenting. Results are measurable and significant. Highly recommend to any parent seeking evidence-based solutions."

"My two-year-old Jacob's violent meltdowns were pushing me to my breaking point. The constant throwing, crying, and resistance during transitions had me questioning everything. Nothing we tried worked until this guide. The preparation strategy for transitions has been LIFE-CHANGING for us. Now we give him advance notice before switching activities, and it's like we have a different child! He's calmer, I'm calmer, and our home is finally peaceful. If you're struggling with a high-energy toddler who fights transitions, this is the solution you've been praying for."

This 170-Page E-Book Is Filled With

Battle-Tested Parenting Strategies To Help You And Your Toddler Enjoy These Benefits:

  • Boosted cooperation: Your toddler will respond to guidance and won't resist instructions easily.

  • Create habits and routines your toddler can stick to: For mealtimes, playtime, daycare transitions, bedtime routines, car rides, and hygiene.

  • Improved focus: When you learn how to structure the environment, your toddler will become less distracted and "fussy".

  • Less resistance and meltdowns: You'll know how to motivate your child to do even those tasks they find boring or uncomfortable.

  • Stress-free transitions: Moving from one activity to another will happen without unnecessary tears and tantrums.

  • Emotional regulation: Your toddler will learn how to control their big feelings whenever they feel overwhelmed, tired or frustrated.

  • Healthy boundaries: You'll no longer feel powerless when your child misbehaves as they'll learn how to understand and respect the rules and boundaries you set.

Here's everything You'll Get in

First-Time Discipline: The Unexpected Method New Parents Are Using to Raise Remarkably Well-Behaved Toddlers !

Part 1:

Understanding the Toddler Brain

Learn how your toddler's developing brain works and discover 11 essential needs that prevent meltdowns. Master CALM strategies to keep their emotions balanced and use our Toddler Thriving Checklist to quickly identify and solve problems.

Part 2:

Toddler Environment Architecture

Create spaces that naturally encourage cooperation. Build sticky routines for mealtimes, bedtime, and transitions. Learn simple home organization tricks that prevent messes and design optimal daily schedules that work with your toddler's natural rhythms.

Part 3:

Unlocking Natural Cooperation

Discover 6 proven strategies that tap into your toddler's innate desire to cooperate. Eliminate power struggles with our simple approach and teach them to complete tasks without constant redirection using our Follow-Through Framework.

Part 4:

Tailored Transition Strategies

Transform challenging transitions into smooth experiences. Avoid the #1 mistake that creates resistance and learn toddler-friendly methods to move between activities without tears. Unlock their natural motivation for even the most boring tasks.

Part 5:

The Toddler Independent Play System

Learn exactly when (and when not) to expect independent play. Use our excitement-building framework to get your toddler happily playing alone for longer periods, developing crucial focus skills that benefit them for years.

Part 6:

Attention Strategies

Activate your toddler's hidden focus abilities with 15 attention-building techniques. Manage screen time effectively and use Attention Amplifiers to gently bring your distracted toddler back to focus within seconds.

Part 7:

Emotional Regulation

Equip your toddler with 4 simple calm-down techniques they can use themselves. Build patience in a child who wants everything "now" and develop essential social skills that make them a joy to be around.

Part 8:

Tantrum & Meltdown Prevention

Prevent 90% of tantrums before they start with 6 key strategies. Master quick "defusing" techniques and learn 3 calm-down protocols for those rare moments when emotions still overflow.

Part 9:

Positive Discipline For Toddlers

Set firm boundaries without triggering meltdowns using 9 toddler-specific discipline approaches. Follow clear step-by-step protocols when misbehavior happens and learn the simple "safety mechanism" that prevents public meltdowns.

Part 10:

Additional Strategies For Unique Struggles

Build your toddler's confidence, deepen your connection, and develop their emotional intelligence. Plus discover specialized solutions for those quirky toddler challenges that leave most parents puzzled.

Here's everything You'll Get in

First-Time Discipline: The Unexpected Method !

Part 1:

Understanding the Toddler Brain

Learn how your toddler's developing brain works and discover 11 essential needs that prevent meltdowns. Master CALM strategies to keep their emotions balanced and use our Toddler Thriving Checklist to quickly identify and solve problems.

Part 2:

Toddler Environment Architecture

Create spaces that naturally encourage cooperation. Build sticky routines for mealtimes, bedtime, and transitions. Learn simple home organization tricks that prevent messes and design optimal daily schedules that work with your toddler's natural rhythms.

Part 3:

Unlocking Natural Cooperation

Discover 6 proven strategies that tap into your toddler's innate desire to cooperate. Eliminate power struggles with our simple approach and teach them to complete tasks without constant redirection using our Follow-Through Framework.

Part 4:

Tailored Transition Strategies

Transform challenging transitions into smooth experiences. Avoid the #1 mistake that creates resistance and learn toddler-friendly methods to move between activities without tears. Unlock their natural motivation for even the most boring tasks.

Part 5:

The Toddler Independent Play System

Learn exactly when (and when not) to expect independent play. Use our excitement-building framework to get your toddler happily playing alone for longer periods, developing crucial focus skills that benefit them for years.

Part 6:

Attention Strategies

Activate your toddler's hidden focus abilities with 15 attention-building techniques. Manage screen time effectively and use Attention Amplifiers to gently bring your distracted toddler back to focus within seconds.

Part 7:

Emotional Regulation

Equip your toddler with 4 simple calm-down techniques they can use themselves. Build patience in a child who wants everything "now" and develop essential social skills that make them a joy to be around.

Part 8:

Tantrum & Meltdown Prevention

Prevent 90% of tantrums before they start with 6 key strategies. Master quick "defusing" techniques and learn 3 calm-down protocols for those rare moments when emotions still overflow.

Part 9:

Positive Discipline For Toddlers

Set firm boundaries without triggering meltdowns using 9 toddler-specific discipline approaches. Follow clear step-by-step protocols when misbehavior happens and learn the simple "safety mechanism" that prevents public meltdowns.

Part 10:

Additional Strategies For Unique Struggles

Build your toddler's confidence, deepen your connection, and develop their emotional intelligence. Plus discover specialized solutions for those quirky toddler challenges that leave most parents puzzled.

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The ADHD Meltdown Prevention Toolkit

Learn to spot meltdown triggers before they escalate and defuse intense emotions effectively. Master gentle yet powerful techniques to help your child regain calm and control.

School Success Strategies for ADHD Students

Unlock your child's academic potential with proven ADHD-specific learning techniques. Discover how to transform homework struggles into productive study sessions and boost classroom performance.

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Social Skills Booster

Help your child build lasting friendships and navigate social situations with confidence. Practical strategies to improve communication, read social cues, and foster positive peer relationships.

The ADHD-Friendly Meal Planner and Cookbook

Transform mealtimes with ADHD-optimized nutrition strategies and easy family-friendly recipes. Learn how to plan, prep, and cook meals that support your child's focus and behavior, while making the kitchen a stress-free zone for the whole family.

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Sleep Solution Guide

Transform bedtime battles into peaceful nights with sleep strategies tailored for the ADHD brain. Discover how quality sleep can dramatically improve your child's focus, behavior, and overall well-being.

Dear exhausted, overwhelmed Mom or Dad...

I've Been Where You Are Right Now!

When my first child, Noah, was born 12 years ago, I thought I was prepared. I'd read the books, set up the nursery, and felt confident that I could handle whatever came my way.

Then toddlerhood arrived. And everything changed...

Noah was what many would call "spirited." He had boundless energy, tested every boundary, and seemed to view my instructions as mere suggestions. Tantrums were explosive, transitions became battles, and simple routines like bedtime stretched into hour-long power struggles.

I was exhausted, frustrated, and honestly, feeling like a failure as a parent.

When Emma arrived three years later, I was determined not to repeat the same struggles. I began developing a systematic approach to toddler discipline—one that worked with their developing brains instead of against them.

The results transformed our family:

During Noah's peak "NO!" phase, I discovered a counterintuitive approach that completely flipped his resistance into cooperation. The change was so dramatic that my wife initially thought I was bribing him (I wasn't).

For Emma, who once needed 45 minutes to leave the playground—with tears guaranteed—I implemented a simple routine that transformed our outings. Within two weeks, other parents were asking what magic spell I'd cast on my formerly difficult child.

What began as survival strategies for my own family soon caught the attention of our community. Parents would ask me, "How do you get your kids to cooperate so willingly?" When I shared these methods, they worked for other families too—consistently.

Soon, parents were passing my name around like a secret weapon for taming toddler chaos. The desperate late-night phone calls began: "Matthew, we've tried everything, can you help us?"

Less Than The Cost Of A Single Parenting Session

A 1-hour consultation with a child behavior specialist costs around $150-$200. That's for just one session, with no guarantee their approach will work for your specific child.

With more than 100 tailor-made strategies in First-Time Discipline, I'm offering this complete system for just $14.85—about the cost of a few coffees.

Try First-Time Discipline 100% Risk-Free for 30 Days

I want you to read the entire e-book completely risk-free for a full 30 days. If you don't feel it's the best resource on toddler discipline you've ever found, or if it doesn't help transform your child's behavior, simply email [email protected] for a full refund. No questions asked.

Plus, you get to keep the e-book—it's on me!

BUILD THE PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP YOU'VE ALWAYS DREAMED OF

Get First-Time Discipline Today!

While other parents struggle with endless battles, you'll be nurturing a cooperative toddler using our proven boundary-setting system!

Frequently asked questions

got any questions?

What if I don't have time to implement this system right now?

Before I answer this question, let me ask you this first: how much time would you SAVE if you wouldn’t have to deal with daily tantrums, arguments, and transition problems with your child?

If it's a significant amount of time (and stress!), then I think you and I both know what you need to do.

The manual will take you less than an hour to read and then you'll be able to implement the whole system through fun activities with your child.

Now, if you're about to go on a 10-day kid-free vacation... that's not really a problem either. The materials will wait for you until you return; just make sure you get them now before we increase the price.

Plus, you have a whole 30 days to try the kit 100% risk-free.

I already tried everything and it didn't help, why would this help?

I hear this from frustrated parents all the time, and I completely understand the skepticism.

Here's what makes First-Time Discipline different: it wasn't created in a laboratory or classroom setting. These methods were born out of real desperation in my own home, tested and refined with my own children who were once considered "difficult" by friends and family.

What separates this approach is that it works with your toddler's developing brain instead of against it. Most traditional methods fight against natural toddler development, which is why they fail.

Parents tell me they're amazed that the same child who wouldn't listen to anything suddenly starts cooperating when these specific techniques are applied. The transformation often happens within days, not months.

How will I receive the product?

You will receive all the materials in a digital format via email. Since you will receive the materials via email, you can of course access them anytime and anywhere you wish. Once you receive the materials, they are yours to keep. You can also print them out and save them in physical form or make visual reminders out of them to help you stay consistent.

Will this system work for younger or older toddlers?

The contents of the system are intended for the parenting of toddlers of all ages. These are proven parenting techniques that simply work, regardless of whether your child is just turning one or heading toward preschool. Some also work with infants and preschoolers!

I'm not sure general parenting tips will work, as every child is unique. Will this system actually help me?

I totally agree with you. Your child is different from all others. And this is really not a bad thing! It just means that they are predictable in some way and that the methods will work for them as they work for most other children.

The parenting techniques I will share with you are based on the psychological patterns and responses of many of the children I have worked with and observed. Regardless of their personality and special characteristics, some things remain the same and work. They are human. Like all of us.

Therefore, I am sure that you will also learn something new, that you will better understand your child, and that you will gain new educational approaches and techniques that will make parenting easier and more successful.

What if I am not satisfied with the product?

If you are not satisfied with the product, please notify us at [email protected] within 30 days of purchase and get your money back.

Please just review and actually try to use the content in practice.

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